The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Xander Says Vanessa Only Wanted to Get Engaged 'to Make Herself Look Good' (Exclusive)
By the end of The Ultimatum: Queer Love's season, Vanessa Papa wanted to get engaged — but not for the right reasons, her partner Xander Boger tells PEOPLE: 'I think it would've been for her control or because she wanted to make herself look good'